Originally Posted By: antlers
I get a text from her today that says...

"Are you gonna let me know what you get them (for X-mas) so we don't duplicate?"



I've been doing lots of Christmas shopping for the kids on my days off and I'm nearly through. I'm not of the mind to let her know what I got them! She would just use that knowledge to her benefit, and against me anyway!

Thoughts or opinions?



Ask her to meet you for a cup of coffee to go over what you got and compare lists. I see it as a opportunity to show off the New & Improved Antlers 2.0.

"Sure let's meet at __________ on ________ or ______________. We can grab a cup of coffee and compare lists."


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