What to do about WAW

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Don't give up.... make a choice, whatever it may be and stick too it.

I, myself, choose love. My spouse. God does not believe in D. We are too reconcile. It will take time. Lots of time maybe. You said you want your family back together, do you? Only you can answer that. Should I give up, well, should you? Is the love you have for your W conditional.... I won't give up as long as I know I have a chance of getting what I want OR do I love my W, flawed or not, and want her back however she may come.... no reward, just love and the chance to make things new again.

Remember, you are not together because of the things both of you let get away from the marriage (laughter, affection, itimacy, communication etc...) both are at fault.

FOCUS, FOCUS, FOCUS on yourself.... keep your goal in sight. DB the best you can, and study others thread.

I need to do this very same thing. But this is as much as I have gathered from ready other threads.

Good Luck.... I am lost tooo.