H told me in the beginning that being single would be better another words and now he sees that it's not but still nothing. I understand he is confused, but I really believe it is more about all of the lies he told his family about me and doesn't know how to get out of the mess that he has made.
That's great insight. In fact, that's exactly what MichelleLT's Ex said about why he was scared to reconcile.
Good that he paid the bill. Here's a quick thought: you still have expectations of him and get disappointed when they don't happen.
It's time to start expecting him to act like an alien, and one who might divorce you. And part of LRT is realizing that even if that happens, you can handle it. There's a confidence that the spouse can sense.
I'm talking as much to myself here. I'm not there yet. Will post more on my thread.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
