What can I do for him? I don't want him to hurt and I know he is really messed up but he doesn't contact me unless it has to do with things like the health insurance. H told me in the beginning that being single would be better another words and now he sees that it's not but still nothing. I understand he is confused, but I really believe it is more about all of the lies he told his family about me and doesn't know how to get out of the mess that he has made.
I had to call him and tell him about paying the truck payment that he gave back to the bank without my consent when he first left, because they told me they were seeking an attorney to contact us regarding he didn't pay in Nov. or Dec. They told me they weren't allowed by law to leave that message on an answering machine so I called and left it.
I wasn't cocky, just nice calm and cool and told him he needed to pay it or they would have an attorney contact us and asked him to let me know if and when he pays the payments. I heard nothing back from him so I had to call the bank to see if he paid or not. He did pay though.
