it might be easy to call the other person if both stay in the same city to work on your R but if you both really want to work on the R then the need or want to call the other person should not factor in because your focus would be and should be to the both of you not someone else. she said she wants to take you back? she left you didn't should that be the other way around. My wife been moved out 3 months now and hasn't shown me that she wants to move back in because the want for her to do so is not there. she had an affair last year (4-5)months but he went back to his wife. so far she hasn't shown any remorse. i think stand your ground-be yourself-be honest-and she thinks you are leaving stuff for her to do(like clothes washing) then just tell her its not done because you haven't had time not that you were leaving it for her to do. me42/wife43/S19/D13/D18 married her spouse19/two grandsboys 18 months and 6 months all live with me not wife
