Heck yeah. In the beginning I was going absolutely crazy - begging, pleading and the rest of the worst things to do. Since I started disconnecting the frequency and level of stress are diminishing, but they're still there. I have to fight hard to suppress them and bite my tongue.
Hey Gno, I am hoping your "stake out" doesn't confirm the worst today. So I am sending my good vibrations your way.
It's funny how when you stop engaging with someone who isn't engaging you, how much things can change (yet stay the same). In my sitch, by the time I stopped engaging, I began to feel indifferent on whether he'd respond to me. And with indifference came a sprinkle of resentment...that still apepars every now and then.
Do you feel negative towards her or is it just as if you are coasting through your day, waiting for her to figure out wth her deal is?
