GF,
Good! Glad I misunderstood your post.

Very sorry about the birthday. Happy Birthday though!

Can you see how confused he is? He's hurting, but doesn't think that staying married will help. I'm glad you got a glimpse of what he's really feeling, they try and put up a happy front.

Hang in there. Keep on doing things for YOU. This is so hard and counter-intuitive, which is why we keep reminding each other here.

I'm 2 1/2 years in, and still wonder what W would think when making decisions. Starting to come out of that and realize who I aPr


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK