Very sorry about the birthday. Happy Birthday though!
Can you see how confused he is? He's hurting, but doesn't think that staying married will help. I'm glad you got a glimpse of what he's really feeling, they try and put up a happy front.
Hang in there. Keep on doing things for YOU. This is so hard and counter-intuitive, which is why we keep reminding each other here.
I'm 2 1/2 years in, and still wonder what W would think when making decisions. Starting to come out of that and realize who I aPr
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK