Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

Hate to say it Brit, but my guess he is using the BB to possibly communicate with OW.

I agree.

Regardless, sounds like you need to set a boundary. Something to the effect of no BB use during family time, in front of you, or around your kiddos.

I also agree. Like I said, I might be showing my age but I don't get the idea of using texting as a primary form of communication.

I can see doing quick check-ins or asking simple questions, but having whole conversations seems very rude and impersonal -- especially around others.