My H just got a blackberry like 4 or 5 days ago. And I'm ready to smash it into a cement wall. He is on it CONSTANTLY!!!!! I am sooooo irritated. Our son will ask him a question and sometimes has to ask 3 or 4 times before H will answer him cause he is too busy on that damn thing. Never used to be like this, but I'd really like to know what he is doing on there constantly.
Hate to say it Brit, but my guess he is using the BB to possibly communicate with OW.
Regardless, sounds like you need to set a boundary. Something to the effect of no BB use during family time, in front of you, or around your kiddos.
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning