Her actions, and how they differ in timeline from the "typical" situation mean nothing. The speed at which she is moving away could mean reality bites her a$$ earlier and she comes back faster. Or it could mean that she never comes back. Too many variables, too many emotions, it's just gonna give you a headache to think about it.
Focus on what you can control - you. Enjoy the R&R with your boys. Operate under the assumption that if there isn't OP now, there will be (and since you are S and she has filed for D, it won't be an A when she justifies it lol). Someone said a few pages back that most women don't let go of the vine unless they have something else to grab onto - that's most people, look at all the men who have As too. People who are depressed or miserable don't have the guts to leave their stable, if boring and imperfect (or whatever they call it), M unless they have something new and exciting to lure them temporarily out of their funk.
That's a bit meandering, hope you can follow my train of thought.
Hang in there.
Just keep putting one foot in front of the other and focusing on you and the boys.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
