Did he stop loving me?

[Augtan]

That is great he will be your friend, it was going good with XH in October, he was here and we got close, had sex, etc. Then, when he got back to OW he went back in the tunnel and doesn't want to be my friend, says he hates me!

Honestly, I think it has gone way too far for us to get back together. I will never say never and no one knows the future, but it has been really bad and I just don't see that happening. Plus, he swears that him and OW are in love and I am sure are going to get married very soon. That will be a huge mess for so many reasons, but there is nothing I can do anymore. I have gone completely dark, no contact at all since Sat. night!

Our short sale was approved this month and there is a buyer, it is a gorgeous house that I put my heart and soul into. I had the realtor ask him yesterday if he was positive he wanted to do this and XH said "I have run the numbers everyway possible and there is no way to swing it". The realtor and I have become friends, he is very supportive of what is going on, he proceeded to tell XH that I am in a lot of pain and to try to put himself in my place, etc." XH said that what the realtor was describing was "crucial confrontations" type stuff! XH use to do that seminar at work each year, I guess it never sunk in at all!! CRAZY!!!

Keep up the friend thing! Everytime I get to that point OW sabotages it, she is threatened by me! I have texted her before and she is not woman enough to respond at all. If she thinks she will never have to deal with me but be married to my kids father, she is nuts too. Well, she is totally crazy, MLC too!

Of course you are 'more than a friend', he just has no idea what is going on in that mixed up alien brain. Sounds like he is trying to take care of you from a distance, take it slow and he might just get closer and closer!! Hang in there!

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