so I need some input please as I have a little problem here. You all know the sitch over here, son wont go to exs new place cos wifey is there, son wants to see dad at xmas, dad wants to see son at xmas, my question is this where in heavens name is that going to happen? I am at a place now in my life that I would be able to invite ex into my home, for the sake of son and especially at xmas time. DO I DO IT OR DONT I is the question, would it be wrong of me to invite ex into my home to spend a little time with son, ex hasnt seen son the last two christmases and barely spent an hour each the two previous ones, dunno what to do folks, is it being pushy am I expecting too much. I would make myself busy in the kitchen as I am having the family over later in the day so it isnt as if he would be near me he would be in the living room with son. Please advise as I dont know what to do for the best, and having said that ex would probably turn the offer down as he would get in trouble of wifey, give me your thoughts please
