This depends on your children, I think. If they are pretty sensitive to that kind of thing, you could be there for them and just be polite to her. But if your children are thick skinned and not too freaked out by one of you not being there for something, and if you truly don't want to be there, then I'd have a meeting to go to. Does that make sense? Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08