Long story short, H was involved in an A since April, I discovered the full extent of it Nov. 9... H waffled for three weeks after that, I DB'ed like crazy. H broke off A Nov. 27 and we have been piecing since then.
H never left the home, was in another bedroom for awhile.
Things are going well, although painful many times. H and I are both seeing IC, and we plan to return to MC as well.
OW has tried contacting H a few times since Nov. 27, which he has ignored, and I was able to verify that, as he has shared passwords, etc. with me.
Just taking it one day at a time....
I am going to read some of the hints and tips on this forum and keep moving forward.
