You have never posted your whole story here before, it might actually be quite cathartic for you.
Nobody knows where you came from, you sort of just appeared under Jack's wing. How about some background.
Many of us who really are oldtimers and have been here for many years, do post when they have time. Some have developed friendships with others on the board and continue to maintain them, seeking advice from those that they trust.
Sometimes, this needs to be a place to absorb and glean from others rather then posting hypocrital posts and other nonsense.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
