Yes I understand Pup but I feel like it has came along way in a short time.
I don't want to miss the opportunity to reconcile when she offers it. She is not going to say - " I am ready to reconcile", "move past this", " let's get on with making our marriage work" etc, etc.
That ain't her, I am going to have to recognize her effort/signal or it will be wasted.
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.