So, from what I read, you had/have a mom who is an emotional blackmailer. (Wow, how did you turn out so good???) Did/Does she try to guilt you into doing things for her, spending time w/her, doing something she wants you to do????
And, W is a psychologist? Good Lord! Do you feel like you're under a microscope much? Does she FEEL anything, or is she constantly evaluating, gauging, measuring, etc...?
(HOPE THESE TWO DON'T WORK TOGETHER FOR A COMMON CAUSE!!!!)
And, it appears you have some hint of the possibility of infidelity. Are you pursuing evidence? Or, are you trying other tactics to make this situation better...? (Something tells me infidelity IS a deal breaker for you.)
So, IF there is that possibility, AND you are pursuing evidence, I guess we wait that out? IF there is, and it's a deal breaker, ok... "Sorry, W, you've made my decision. Catch ya on the flip-side."
BUT, IF NOT, are you considering creating a crisis?
And, am I commenting on what I'm supposed to? (BLONDE!)
Just getting my arms around this... Sometimes I require being led.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
(BLONDE!)
