I don't want to sound harsh, but it sounds like he wants a 100% comittment from you before he will even begin to make any changes in himself. That is sooooo wrong! He needs to earn the right to have a relationship with you, not the other way around.
I agree. But earning that right to have a relationship with me makes him think again that he is the 'bad guy' and I am perfect. He cannot stand that! Seriously, he throws that in my face all the time. I so do not think that and have told him that, but it feels like he wants me to beg and grovel and then HE will decide.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
