Somehow, some way you (and I :)) are going to have to learn to not read too much into simple statements. I feel you on this. I hate the thought of exh being physical with anyone too and it drives me crazy. But for us to be attractive we need to act like we don't give a crap and need to believe it!
I am in your corner Kevin! You can do this!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!