Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Also,
been thinking about when I should confront W about OP-if true. Can I get a consesus on if I should wait until after I get into town/wait until after I leave town? Or should I call her after I have the proof? If I do that-she will be at work, and not sure if that is such a good thing to do-I think no on the calling her at work. Not really sure when a good time is, and how to address this, especially when I dont think she will meet me somewhere to talk.

Also,
and I think I asked this before, what should I expect from W, as far as reaction/actions when confronted? Well, besides denial/lies? Knowing my W, she will deny at first, then blame me, then cry, deny again, quiz me to see what I know, then maybe admit. What if she doesn't quit the A? I am definately going to set a boundary for her, and continue investigating, but what then? I am just leaning forward in the foxhole, to try to be one step ahead. Thanks.

As always, takin' it...One Day at a Time