I left the house today for a few hours, trying to get out and not be around him constantly and be as dark and carefree and act "as if" as much as possible. Just hard with him in the house and wanting to do "family" stuff together.
H also told me last night that he has my Christmas gift picked out and he said its the best gift he has ever given me. So since when were we buying each other gifts? Since you moved in? Ugh so confusing!!!!
Very good job Britt. Very good. It is working. Notice that he is starting to reach out and test where your mind is. Don't reveal what you are thinking. Keep staying somewhat distant and carefree. Do not act angry or mean. Just distant and in your own thoughts and world. You need to get him to the state that he is curious to what is going on in your mind. You don't get him there by being open, but by being distant and quiet.
BE PREPARED with your speech when he asks you what is up with you lately. It is important that you say things in the correct way... "I have been doing some thinking and here is what I have decided"..... Strong, in control, matter of fact and firm. This isn't for the weak. IF he loves you then this should wake him up if you hold your line.
