K4D Rising #4

[25yearsmlc]

[quote=K4D]Tonight I had to work late. This had been prescheduled with my W so she knew she would have to girls until I got off. Normally when this happens, she keeps them at her place until I get off work and swing by and get them.

Not tonight.

W: What's it looking like? I am taking the girls to your place.
K4D: I have no idea.
K4D: Did they eat?
D12: Mom is driving. We are picking up food on the way to the apartment.
K4D: I was going to stop by and get the tree
W: Not tonight. Friends coming over. You can't expect me to stop making plans when I get a "no idea" on what time you will pick up the kids.
K4D: Understood
W: Plan on getting the tree tomorrow. If I'd known I'd have brought it.
K4D: Will do. Thanks.

When there were female friends over in the past, W had no problem with keeping the girls there until I got there. The Christmas tree is in the garage, so I wouldn't even have to bother anyone in the house.

So what??!

You be the judge.

No thanks,
You already are the judge, and you already forgot the lesson we thought you learned about your harsh assessments of dating OP earlier and here a month later (or less) you still do the same fri00000 thing again! You make the same mistakes over and over again.

DETACH AND STOP GIVING A S@#$ about why she tells you something she has every right to tell you. She had the girls later than usual AND you gave her NO timeline for your arrival...(wth? SO you could get them at 4 am and she better be fine with that??)) you have nothing to complain about - let alone "judge"...

[color:#CC0000]Sigh--Come on K4...plan a happy holiday for your girls that does NOT depend on your w or how she and her family treat you...

Please dear God do that for your d's sake if not yours, and move on... You definitely confuse "Standing" with standing still....or praying and fasting...and NOT getting tools for life and love.
You have some reading and reflecting to do. It's all here already...has been for awhile.
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