I forgot another tidbit--at one point, WH was talking about a new hamburger joint and wanted to know if I had heard of it. He said it was close by and he showed me the website.He was saying how good the food was supposed to be. I was expecting him to ask me if I wanted to go! I was actually nervous. But he didn't. Not that asking me to go would mean anything.
Here is the thing about my WH--he hints a lot instead of directly asking for stuff. Does this mean he is passive aggressive?
So for example..."what are you making for lunch? Oh. Brats would be good too" (instead of "can we have brats for lunch") "that shirt looks kind of big on him. Maybe he would be more comfortable in a different one." (instead of "We should change his shirt--it looks too big."
"I usually put a towel down to catch the drips." (instead of "could you please put a towel under next time? It really helps)
"you could turn left, but that street gets backed up with traffic" (instead of "No, keep going and turn left at the next signal")
get the idea? I forgot why I felt the need to explain this about him...maybe because I was thinking he was hinting about the hamburger joint and was waiting for me to ask him?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004