I think you are being the judge. You really don't know the circumstances. You're still having issues detaching.
I have judged the situation. I have no reason to doubt my judgement either based off past experience. Stuck, it always hurts to think of someone else being with my W especially in a physical way. It is hard to completely 100% detach from that so that it never affects me again.
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Am I to assume you're still standing for your M?
Yes. I am. Did I leave that stance for a while? Yes. But I have returned to it. And I was never physical with my brief stray. It was purely emotion for a temporary period of time.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...