Hello everyone - Separated person in needs advice

[ugetvince]

I think everything the group is saying here is right on. I took me a while to realize but ive been living on pins and needles for a long time hoping and praying by backing off would make things better.
Now if you look at my sitch ive realized i changed as a man,person and husband.
Im finally starting to find myself again. Its been two months since wife dropped the bomb but I think its really been about a year that she mentally quit on our marriage.
The day I started to respect myself and get some confidence back is the day I started becoming me again.
I work at it everyday and I hope you will do the same.