That's great news about raises. Hopefully you are in a good position when it comes to their generosity!
So do you think that right now you have SO many things on your mind that you're just totally overloaded? Do you feel it during the day or any you coping? I go through periods when I don't sleep and I'm totally exhausted, then other times I have no problem.
Ex is now not with CG, but with a new girl and they have a baby. The baby is his although he told Peanut it's his GF's ex-husbands.... and so the drama continues....
But Peanut and I are great and I FINALLY got the promotion at work
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
Wow. Although I just posted a rather positive thing in my thread I did hear from D11 tonight that she wished Mommy and Daddy were together. She also said she liked who I was seeing now and it was ok because she was really nice and pretty too. LOL!
Ultimately kids do want a complete family and I can't blame them one bit. If I thought the ex and I could resolve all our issues and bury old wounds, I would make a damn good go at it. But that's not in the cards so I make the best lemonade I can and the kids appreciate it just the same. (Good to know they really like the new woman in my life too!)
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
Don't you find it odd that people continue to involve the kids in things that they shouldn't be involved in? She's 9. Sorry Donna - I am late in responding.
She is getting a new step mom and is kind of excited, although from what I overhear she is a bit jealous of time Peanut wants with just her dad. She doesn't sound as bad as the heifer...so what do you do? She's fairly good to Peanut, has given Peanut a sister, and all Peanut can say is "I want you to find someone that makes you happy." God love her.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
