H trying to bait me for what I can tell. Shows up an hour and a half late, S is waiting, then says to me."Are you going out" and I said I would have told him if I was and that I didn't like the implication that he's trying to get rid of me. He says,'it is always easier for me when you aren't here." I feel furious, trying to not catch the bait.

I say, "You can put S to bed and leave if you like." He says "just wondering if you are going out to bars or smoking cigarettes or something" which is inappropriate in front of a five year old.

Then he has the nerve to say "I"m waiting for the day when you stop bringing these things up in front of S."

I'm not supposed to take the bait - he's trying to get me upset and he's trying to make me so uncomfortable I leave.

Last edited by Hope4Luv; 12/10/09 03:48 AM.

Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship