Hi, I've only caught a small portion of your sitch. But I wanted to say you sound great. Best of luck with this. I agree with others - you have a smart plan and you are showing tremendous strength.
And..yeah...I say get everything you can. He made the choices that ultimately ended your marriage, it's time for you to take care of you.
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010