That's not what is going on here. My daughter never takes her lunch to school, she always buys her lunch. I usually am the one that give her lunch money because my wife doesn't have money half of the time. I forgot to give her money the night before. I would think that my wife would be able to scrape toghether three bucks to pay for lunch. What probably happened is that she was already upset with my daughter for running late which she does quite often. The problem isn't that my daughter didn't have lunch or lunch money, the problem is the way that my wife handled it. Had she just woke me up and got the money it would not have been an issue. But she was probably so upset with my daughter for being late again that she just made the situation worse by leaving to go to work and allowing my daughter to figure out for herself what to do. Now my daughter should have just woke me up herself to get the money like she does for every other thing that she wants. But I think this is just another example of irrational decision making on my wife's part.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
Probably going to have a fight tonight when I get home. I told my wife Thursday that I needed her to give me money to help pay bills, in particular the insurance on the car that she drives everyday. In the meantime I paid the insurance (actually it automatically comes out of my account every month)and just want her to pay me back. As of today she hasn't given me a dime or said a word about it. So when I get home from work I am going to ask her again about the money. She probably called the insurance agent to see if the bill is due. If she doesn't give me any money I am going to cancel the automatic deduction. The only problem is that the car is in my name and if she drives it and gets into an accident I will have a problem. I hoping that she just does the right thing and save us both a problem.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
Wife went to a job related function last night. I don't know what time she got home since I went to bed around 11:00 pm so that I could get up for work. Normally I would ask her what time she got in but since I have gone dark I'm not going to say anything to her about it. It still bothers me though. I'm trying not to concern myself with it.
Question to all of you. I have gone dark with my wife and it has been about two weeks now. I don't really expect to see any results from this since she already prefers not to speak. I plan on keeping the course but how long should I continue on and what should I try next if this doesn't do any good?
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
Having a rough day today. Really feeling down about situation. Things just go from bad to worse. Football will be on shortly to take mind off of problems for a little while. Gotta keep going and make it through the rough times. I keep telling myself that dthings will get better. We'll see.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
Wolverine, sorry you are having a tough time right now. Things will get better and you are the one who is going to make them better. Football is an excellent distraction but if it doesn't work...go to the book store and pick up Tolle's The Power of Now. I read it last night and it gave me a great deal of clarity about my circumstances and helped instill some compassion for my wife. However your sitch turns out, that book will help at some point in your life in some way. Know that God is watching over you right now.
Thanks for the kind words. I'll check out that book when I go to the bookstore.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
I forwarded my wife an e-mail from our insurance company informing her that the car insurance is due in two weeks (Both cars are in my name and I make an automatic combined monthy payment for both cars). She responds with an snotty e-mail saying that she told me that she would pay her half of the insurance when she gets paid next week. Should I respond back? I was just letting her know that it was due soon, no need for her to be a jerk about it.
I called the insurance company to inquire about stopping the monthly payment on her car. For me to do that I will have to make two payments in advance. I'm not sure that I want to do that. First of all, I don't want to make two payments and secondly, with both cars being registered to me if she misses a payment and gets into an accident I will be liable. Gotta figure out the best way to handle this.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
