Tonight I had to work late. This had been prescheduled with my W so she knew she would have to girls until I got off. Normally when this happens, she keeps them at her place until I get off work and swing by and get them.

Not tonight.

W: What's it looking like? I am taking the girls to your place.
K4D: I have no idea.
K4D: Did they eat?
D12: Mom is driving. We are picking up food on the way to the apartment.
K4D: I was going to stop by and get the tree
W: Not tonight. Friends coming over. You can't expect me to stop making plans when I get a "no idea" on what time you will pick up the kids.
K4D: Understood
W: Plan on getting the tree tomorrow. If I'd known I'd have brought it.
K4D: Will do. Thanks.

When there were female friends over in the past, W had no problem with keeping the girls there until I got there. The Christmas tree is in the garage, so I wouldn't even have to bother anyone in the house.

You be the judge.

Kevin

Last edited by K4D; 12/10/09 02:22 AM.
Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...