Sandi's Place

[ClingingToHope]

I think you were asked by another poster if you could move back into your home, but I can't remember how you responded to that. Just as a way of throwing some ideas around....what would happen if by the end of December you told her you could no longer afford to pay her and pay for the lease on your apartment....therefore you would be moving back into your house.

Since she was the one who did not want to remain in the M....she can find a place to live if she doesn't want to stay with you. That is giving her a two weeks notice....right? grin

That takes me back to the beginning. When she first brought up D she said she'd take the kids with. Back in February, when she was going through a real down stretch she talked about no one listening to her -- people at work, the kids, people at a theater group and me. She wanted me to move in with a friend until she could figure things out.

We decided to postpone things until end of school year, but I couldn't even make it that long.

Isn't the horse out of the barn. I've only somewhat toyed with the idea of saying I'd move back in. Financially, I can make it on my own. I have a second job in the winter and spring that help me get by. It's just that she's got a pretty sweet deal with the amount I'm giving her.

I still want to save the M. I've been trying the LRT method. Wouldn't moving back in just blow everything up? Tell me how moving back in might play out in the WAW's mind.