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do you ever feel like there's a time that you don't have it anymore? I mean...I don't really post here often except to keep up with those I "grew up with" who are still here...


April,
It's not that you don't have it anymore, it's that you just don't have it in you at the time. I can tell you that I stay away sometimes just because sometimes you need a break from the sadness.
Reality check folks, threads on this sight will not make you feel peachy 99% of the time. This is a website about the hardest fuckinn thing that we go through in our lives. This is a website about the most pain we have ever felt in our lives. This is a website that talks about hurt, fear, and sorrow. You cannot continually be in the midst of that, it is too much to take.

Jack is reflective, hmmm.... Not sure what to think about that one buddy....
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I am saying the MESSAGE is still GOOD, even if you do not believe you are living up to it.


That is what the newcomers board is all about. I gave some of my best advice to others when I was struggling the most with my own situation. Knowing the right words does not always mean obeying them.....

Mach... define "oldtimer" please?????? Cause I assume your sorry assss is talking about age.......

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NOT posting may actually mean that we are out trying to fullfill our lives with culture, taking chances , doing something new, and thriving-not just surviving.


Do you think with all that you are dealing with, maybe it's time to actually have a real thread Mach? Seems like it might be time.... While you entered this sight from a different direction it is probably time to use it the way it is intended.


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09