I just read your thread. Congratulations on the progress you've had so far. You are doing a lot, PLUS raising three small ones.
Your H sure has his head buried. He seems to not waiver. Mine was where yours is, but never moved out, or really talked D. But, he was NOT giving me any indications of even liking me for a long time. But, thanks to DB, and the concepts, we're getting there. He's as slow as they come, but we do enjoy each other now.
Just wanted to offer some support. I'm a mom of 3, too!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.