I thought I'd cut and paste some snippets of what I posted to FutureUnknown here in my own thread because I need to be reminded of it myself every now and again.

Originally Posted By: Gnosis
You said we're separated and we're done, then we're separated, and we're done.
I dunno how many times I've to said this on the board: Anything you say or do can and will be used against you... Guaranteed! That my friend is what is called MANIPULATION and your W is extremely GOOD at it. That's what MC's do don't they? Use your own words against you to dig deeper into the meaning behind them. To get you to doubt your own motives and discover your intentions.


Originally Posted By: Gnosis
What is going on with her? She is not responding how I'm expecting.
Don't have any expectations.

Again I'm worried I've pushed her away for good.
You're trying to mindread. You don't know what she's thinking. <SNIP> Let her think it's over. You wanted the CRISIS... this is part of it. Just like your own mind is your worst enemy, so is hers.


Originally Posted By: Gnosis
Oh, and if you're wondering how I come up with all this SH!T... my mother is an professional emotional blackmailer (I had 28 years of that crap until I put my foot down on it... and she STILL manages to get me sometimes.) And my W is a psychologist. I often joked to friend that I was her guinea pig... I don't do that anymore.


OK, that about sums this up.