Pls help--confused and fearful

[Day by Day]

I got to reading more posts again. I should be studying for an exam. But, I am feeling less like giving up.

Kids just came back from counseling WAH took them to, but they were just with the counselor. The counselor asked them what to share with him. They wanted him to know how angry they are with him and they want honesty about whether he is truly going to work on the M or not. They felt much better after speaking with her. As soon as WAH got to his place, he texted me that it was a good session and for me to take them next week. I didn't expect a TM, the kids told me themselves.

I also learned that he's messing up with his driving. He's miscalculating and scraped his beloved car in two different drive-thrus and scraped the rims. So unlike him. He would have flipped with any little nick. The last one happened today with the kids. They said he didn't seem to care--and the first thing he does is text me something I already knew. ???

Sort of not caring to respond. But might take it as an opportunity to keep showing my polite side and not my anger/hurt/disappointment. Eh, not really caring. Hmm... could I be closer to detaching?