I am fine. I have been keeping myself busy with all the Christmas hub bub.. Putting up decorations, shopping, baking, cleaning, on line shopping, etc...
It has been a great diversion. Keeping busy does wonders for the soul. Ex has been quiet, no word from him. I like it this way.
Still no decision regarding the child support. I left a message for the judge indicating that it would be helpful to me to have a decision soon since I have a lot of bills that need to be paid.
Hoping I'll get a decision by the end of the week. Hope you are doing well
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting, This is a very stressful time of the year, please be sure to take some time out for yourself and enjoy your family. Children grow up so quickly and they become adults before you know it.
I truly believe that miracles can occur at any time, but especially during this most blessed and yet magical time of the year. The miracles may not be what we would expect, but there always seems to be something good that happens to each of us.
As for the court and support payments, keep calling them every day until you get an answer. They are always busy, but this time of the year, they do tend to slow down.
I truly do hope that you have a happy and magical holiday w/your family.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Wishing you the best also. Thank you for all your nice sentiments. We are all blessed with all your advice and wisdom. You are a godsend.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Just trying to keep busy Cagz. My ex has been really really quiet. He seems like he is severely depressed since I have cut off all contact. I have been going out with girlfriends lately and trying to enjoy myself socially. Memories of ex come and go and are not so vivid now.
Christmas is tough but I try to remember what a beautiful time of year it can be. Just trying to make it the best for my kids.
Tell me about yourself?
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
i am just being stupid. this is my year without d13 - s20 will go over to for christmas. good news is I do get to be with them Christmas eve and wake up with them Christmas morning...bad news is ... christmas alone.
just been sad ..stuff with s20 - trying to do stuff right .. learn to be single.. you know all of it...
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
