Thanks Gnosis. For the first time, I am holding the line. I have to think of this as a long term strategy. One thing I've learned through this is that I HAVE TIME! My natural impulse is to fix now, now, now, but after one year of this, I've learned patience. If we're still in play one year after she moved out, had an A, endless turmoil, why should I fear this is the end?
I really could use some peace in my life too, so just falling back and letting time go by doesn't sound so bad.
