Kara...here are some suggestions for you, things to do to cause mystery (and also GAL)...
*Do you have a sister or girlfriend nearby whom you could spend a few nights with? Just don't come home one night, don't call, just show up in the morning and go about your day as if it was no different. If he asks - you say its none of his business, or even just tell him the truth (sister, girlfriend) as he will likely not believe this anyway. Do this once, and then do it again in about a week, for one night at a time.
*If you've never liked something, start doing it! Example, you've never been interested in golf, go take some private lessons or just hit a few buckets at a driving range! Leave pamphlets around the house about the new activity. If you've never liked football, let him catch you watching a game. DON'T do this one if football is something he likes, don't let him think its about him and his likes. Just suddenly taking up something new that would surprise him, is the point. Something he would never expect you to have an interest in. If he asks about it, you tell him a friend suggested you try it. If he asks which friend, you tell him "someone you don't know" (which is the truth, as he doesn't know ME! LOL!)
*Go through your closets and rearrange everything. Change drawers around, what used to be the "junk drawer" is now the "extra towels and rags drawer". Just weird little things like that will cause mystery, believe it or not.
*Go to the library or bookstore and get some books on a topic you've always wanted to know more about but something that you never told HIM about. Architecture? Mid-century poetry? Art history? Dog breeding? Whatever it is, there is always something we have an interest in which could be studied up on. Then actually READ them! :0)
*Search your local meet up groups for fun, free, non-dating things to do with other people.
