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[awest1217]

Well...OW is living with H. She is losing her job starting the first of the year and he and she are "worried about how to pay bills". Also he started talking yesterday to the first OW ever. Talked to her online from until 1 am, and text her during the day and talked to her after school. I asked him about it, and he denied everything. I also asked about the Missouri girl, and nothing. Denies he ever talked to her. He then cried when I talked about Christmas because his mom does not ever talk to me any more so I told him to let her know S and I will not be there on Christmas day (we usually do both christmas eve and day). He asked again about Christmas eve and I said I didn't know. I want to go because it is S's first Christmas remembering Christmas and I want to be with him, but I don't want to put on a show for his extended family. Plus his family likes to do family pics on Christmas and I don't know if I should be in it or not. He just cried and said started sulking about how he doesn't deserve presents because he is so bad, but he won't admit to anything because I will just "beat him down". I don't get it.

I have one week...one week. I want to tell him I know everything, but I am just going to have to let it go. One week.