You are a winner flowergurlie. This is most impressive:

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An hour after that I responded with a text back "I will set up a meeting with you when I finish having everything prepared, until then I'm not available

I cried and suffered the heartbreak for at least a year before I was able to speak to my H like this.

And this is proof positive that a tough stance works:
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Voicemail message left from him "I need you to call me back when you have a second - curious to know what there is to prepare - why you can't even speak with me when you have to prepare, i'm kind of curious on that one - so, if you would please call me back."

I'm proud of you and will continue to follow your sitch.


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10