Marriage Counseling

[CountingCrows]

My W has seen different ICs for many years (>10), due to depression/anxiety/bi-polar d.

I've never done IC, although I'm looking into it right now for myself. At the end of a previous marriage, my WAW was too involved with OM for MC to work. We went to one session. It was obvious that MC wasn't pro-marriage, and we never went again. D followed up shortly behind it.

Because of that previous experience, I've always spoken unfavorably about MC since I met current W. It was thrown back in my face when bomb dropped and I suggested we try MC. Of course, she was/is in a A, so I understand why she doesn't want to try. It would do us no good at this point until OM is completely out of the picture. Haven't mentioned it again since, but will push for it if she ever seriously wants to reconcile.