AFG, the less he knows the better. Let him suffer. I'm all for anything you can do to make his life miserable. I don't think you should talk to him at all. I know you want to be nice and save money, but when the subject of alimony comes up expect him to fight. He won't be reasonable. Personally, I would retain the best shark, hardass D-lawyer in the state and take him for whatever he's got and more.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
