Moving on with my life!

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There is no reconciliation but hes talking like he would like to see if that is possible by spending more time together. He is communicating more, coming over alot more, wanting to do stuff with us, ILY, being affectionate etc. By doing all of this and straying away from the unpersonal coparent visitation scenario we had there is no way for me not to feel something. Bottom line for me is if he is doing this and trying to cake eat with absolutely no boundaries and no good intentions of a true reconciliation possiblity then its putting me back at square one. I honestly don't think there is anything wrong with letting him know my boundaries of no other women if this is what he wants to do. If he can't do that, then fine I will go on my way again and be distant and on my own. By distant I mean only talking about baby and that is all, and not letting him use my home as a swinging door when he pleases.

Yes, we are divorced but divorced people dont spend all their free time together either. They don't get personal. They don't say ILY.

I am not in a rush, but given how he tried to live both lives for so long before I don't want to go there again if he isn't sincere with his intentions.