No MC before the bomb. W said she would go - I said I wanted to go but only if reconciliation was on the table. She said ok, I'll go, then a month or so later, says she never agreed to go to a MC for reconciliation and only agreed to go for co-parenting.
I think MC can work, but if the WAS sticks with I'm done, you are just beating a dead horse. MC is not a silver bullet, but it may be a way to help a couple work through the issues - but both have to be willing to work on the R or at least be open to discussing/entertaining that.
