Thanks for the feedback guys. ALso, PDT, I recently read your sitch post redux. I have somethings to learn from you.
I see dburts point about laying off the MC. I had previously cancelled an appt telling her that I didn't believe enough time had passed. Anyway, I scheduled this appt because I wanted to get in before the holiday, probobly in a moment of weekness. I do not plan to revisit the topic with her. If she brings it up, I will tell her that I made the appointment and intend to keep it as an IC. If she announces an intention to come--frankly, I am not sure what we would talk about. She doesn't want to talk about marriage and I will not talk about divorce or seperation. Any thoughts?
I am getting a bit more action. Today, her texts took a different tone. (Of course, she needed something but, she asked differently today.) I responded all business with a short phone response which was appropriate under my circumstances of the moment. She later texted to as "All Ok". I did not respond immediately. But at an appropriate time I called to tell her the plan to make the exchange of certain items. We met at a at a resturaunt where she was having lunch with a gf. She was all smiles toward me and congratulated me on an accomplishment at work. (I did not mention the achievement, I waited for her to ask.) Her friend proposed a group hug. This is the first physical contact between us in several weeks. I made a courteous and quickly departure. She called twenty minutes later to congratulate me again and thank me again for a scheduling accomidation (the true beneficiary was the D11 and D7). I told her it just worked out timing wise that I was able to do it.I probobly went over board here: In response to her further congratulations I said "Thank you" three times. I think it was in response to several acalades from her. Then, moved to end an conversation. I believe she had more on her mind. Am I starting to see some signs of being pursued or is it just the way the wind is blowing right now? Who knows. I am starting to look for boundries to assert. Thanks guys.
