I agree with the separate lawyers, PDT.. However, My Lawyer comes highly recommended and W has a shark with killer track record. I am willing to be fair and I was hoping for mediation as way to "soften" the damage without adversarial context..
I still plan on 180s and DR'ing
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H50 W44 M17 yrs S15 D11 D10 Bomb 4/09 Trial separation/moved out 9/09 Moved back in 12/29/09