how to 180 when you've been too independent?

[Ready2Change]

I feel like I am the only one here in this particular sitch. I know that can't be true; I'm thinking only of my own pain.

Each sitch is unique, but they all have very similar patterns (or scripts). These patterns have been played out though out history. How much temptation is out there? How much resentment and blame goes on in a R?

We can learn from each sitch to improve our current/future relationships.