What Puppy says ... particularly, where the visitation of the children are concerned. He shouldn't be visiting them at her home. There shouldn't be all that cozy family type thing happening there, but at your house.
I don't know how all that's going to happen, but watch out for that, I think.
Good luck --- hope things work out.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim