Marriage Counseling

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No C prior to Bomb. What a Bomb too... I was in IC for approx. 8 weeks after W left. Pro-marriage C, I made sure before I went. W was in IC prior to Bomb. She went 6 seesions. She stopped going when she found out her C was pro marriage; then she drooped the Bomb "ILYBINILWYAM" Ouch...

W dropped the Bomb, and moved out 1 hour later.

Since then we have not really spoken much. But when we have, it has been pleasant.

I have not figured out how to bust the PA yet, but it may just take care of itself. She tells me she is thinking about coming home, and also, thinking about MC with a good Christian MC.

My W claimed I was abusive verbally. She has since backed away from that as I learned about EA prior to Bomb. She was just looking for excuse to do the other thing. I think she has found out or is feeling the grass in not always greener!

Be careful. I was a verbal abuser (even thou W thinks that maybe I was not). We do play and hide. It took me over 1 year to get to where I am now(with my behavior). Your H can change, but it will take alot of hard work, love & patience. Never give up. Make the choice and work thru it. A stronger marriage is on the other side....