Please..I really need some advice!!!

[DownNotOut...yet]

What advice are you looking for? Have you read the books?

It sounds like you were doing GREAT. You passed the first test. Good.

You guys went out to eat, together...good. She picked a place that had been very special. OK cool BUT here is where you start to go wrong if you read anything into other than she liked that place.

You avoided and alcohol fueled drama...good. Word of advice, don't drink when you are with her. She might be looking to see how much drinking you are doing these days. Booze also makes bad things happen. Avoid the whole mess.

You should have unloaded the stuff at her place. Thanked her for a nice day and split. You better duck because HUGE 2x4 coming your way.

You were doing really really well, then you switched into hyper pursuit mode. You walked over and kissed her? OK I will let that slide, you have to play if you want to be in the game BUT you should have kissed her, thanked her for a nice day and split.

You were told by her she didn't want sex, so you doubled back around and asked for sex again???!!! You should have thanked her for a nice day and split.

Quit while you are ahead. Always leave them wanting more...did I say you should have thanked her for a nice day and split?

The advice is back the heck off. You looked like a desperate guy trying to get his d!ck wet...and I am a guy saying this. Imagine how it feels to a woman.

Tell us about how you are improving you. How are you getting a life. What are you doing to adress your shortcomings in the relationship? It sounds like the door is open a crack but you probably took one step forward but then three steps back.

Next time leave sooner than later. If she wants sex from you, she knows where to find it. Back off, zero pursuit.